20 Best Sex Toys for Men That Will Boost Your Sex Life in 2025

Thanks to the internet, we can explore ourselves without condemnation. You can look at these handy (pun intended) finger vibrators as an easy way to level up your standard manual masturbation session. “Finger vibrators are an amazing addition to solo sex because they allow you to use your hand as you normally would…while also providing vibration,” Searah Deysach, sex educator and owner of Early to Bed, told SELF. They come in a variety of intensities and styles (some may be worn like rings, while others slide right over your fingertip), and wholesale Adult sex toys, like your own two hands, can go anywhere. If it’s your first time buying a sex toy, sexologist Rebecca Alvarez Story, founder of Bloomi, recommends deciding if you want either internal or external stimulation. “I would start with something simple, something that vibrates, that’s not very big, and something you find fun,” says Alvarez Story.

Unfortunately sextoystoreshopping.com, the pocket pussy thick, fleshy material makes it chunky on the hands, and people with smaller hands will find it hard to maintain a rhythm of stroking motion. The simple and functional user interface made it easy to make the most of the multiple fun motions. Whether you want to chill out and use the plus and minus toggles on the screen to regulate the rumbles or twist and shake to match your mood, your imagination is the only limit.

Unlike the other prostate massagers we reviewed for the article, Loki Wave had the patented come-hither technology. The feature feels like someone is fingering you, with the tweaking shaft that moves back and forth. We loved that Kiiroo Keon was compatible with the Real Feel app (screenshots in the image above).

If you look around your bedroom sex toys, bathroom, or kitchen, there are plenty of things that vibrate and things that can feel like a tongue (if you use your imagination). Complete with remote control and vibrating motors in its tip and base, the Lelo Hugo is a smooth, medium-size prostate massager that leads to large-size orgasms. It’s a favorite of Adina Mahalli, MSW, relationship expert, and women’s health specialist at Maple Holistics, who previously noted to SELF that the Hugo makes an excellent toy for women to try too. This elegant metal toy has a lot to offer for both cis and trans guys, says Richards. “For myself and my other vulva-having partners, curved metal wand toys are almost universally a guaranteed orgasm,” he says. Richards likes that there’s a small end and a larger end, so you can experiment with different sensations.

And if you accidentally go past a favorite, jumping back was snappy. The upgraded version of the original Magic Wand has more settings and a more powerful motor. Unlike its predecessor’s two settings, you get four, and the power clocks an extra 300 rpm, making it ideal for the more experienced folks. In addition, the head (zoomed in the image below) is made from non-porous and bod-safe silicone compared to the former’s porous vinyl.